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Why We Struggle with Conflict: The Modeling Problem
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Duration: 0:36
Courage vs. Aggression in Conflict
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0:50
Duration: 0:55
Why Facts Don't Change Minds
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2:37
Duration: 0:19
How to Start a Difficult Conversation
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6:26
Duration: 1:31
How to Stay Composed During Heated Conversations
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17:34
Duration: 1:30
The True Meaning of 'Holding Space'
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11:08
Duration: 0:47
3 Powerful Phrases for Deep Connection
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12:36
Duration: 1:17
How to Slow Down Stressful Conversations
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18:03
Duration: 0:25
The Trap of Stressful Timing in Relationships
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18:28
Duration: 0:30
Naming Your Defensiveness Out Loud
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19:02
Duration: 0:37
The 'Worry Sabbath': Scheduling Your Anxiety
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22:48
Duration: 0:41
What Anger is Actually Hiding
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25:26
Duration: 0:29
The Power Move for De-escalating Aggression
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31:58
Duration: 1:24
Why We Get Angry: The Evolutionary Purpose of Rage
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27:58
Duration: 1:02
The Hidden Emotions Underneath Anger and Shame
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29:27
Duration: 1:32
Using 'Seems Like' to Open Up Difficult Conversations
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36:02
Duration: 0:55
How to Disarm Passive Aggressive People
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36:55
Duration: 1:28
Old Scripts: Why We Overreact in Arguments
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40:00
Duration: 1:34
Don't Bury the Lead: How to Deliver Bad News
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44:31
Duration: 2:19
Stop Using the 'Compliment Sandwich'
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45:54
Duration: 1:27
Why We Fail at Hard Conversations
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47:52
Duration: 1:34
The Art of Disappointing People
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50:56
Duration: 1:32
The Shame of Small Fears: Why Modern Life is Terrifying
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56:57
Duration: 1:21
The Hardest Thing You'll Do All Year: Being Honest
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1:00:20
Duration: 1:41
The McNamara Fallacy: Measuring What Doesn't Matter
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1:04:19
Duration: 0:58
The 'What Did You Hear?' Technique for Miscommunication
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1:06:11
Duration: 1:24
The 100 BPM Rule: Why You Can't Reason While Angry
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1:08:52
Duration: 0:23
The 7-Second Silence: How to Disarm an Insult
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1:13:50
Duration: 1:26
The Power of Forcing a Repeat
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1:14:48
Duration: 2:03
The 'Did You Mean' Framework
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1:16:51
Duration: 1:37
Using Silence to Break a Liar
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1:25:03
Duration: 0:37
Liars Fear the Calm: Using Silence in High-Stakes Conversations
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1:24:53
Duration: 1:12
How to Handle the 'I Was Just Joking' Defense
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1:26:32
Duration: 1:16
Vagal Authority: Who is the Thermostat in the Room?
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1:32:53
Duration: 2:22
Stop Using Weak Language: Hedging vs. Confidence
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1:28:51
Duration: 1:25
How to Control the Temperature of the Room
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1:34:32
Duration: 0:53
The Anatomy of a Composed Voice
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1:36:13
Duration: 0:49
The Spectrum of Assertiveness vs. Aggression
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1:38:22
Duration: 0:54
The Danger of Using Too Many Words
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1:41:43
Duration: 0:34
The Danger of the 'Cheesecake Factory' Conversation
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1:44:14
Duration: 0:52
Stop Imposing Dualities in Your Questions
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1:45:15
Duration: 1:00
Prioritize Connection Over Being Right
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1:47:11
Duration: 1:01
The Two Types of Empathy
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1:50:11
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The Liar's Greatest Enemy: Silence
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1:53:32
Duration: 0:24
The Gold Standard of Relationship Repair
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1:57:54
Duration: 1:40
The Surprising Cue That Someone is Lying
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1:53:35
Duration: 1:38
The Divorce Paradox: Predicting Longevity
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1:59:48
Duration: 0:52
The 'Inception' of Trial Law: Communicating Without Speaking
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2:02:56
Duration: 1:36
Why You Should Never Put 'Hype' on One Conversation
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2:07:30
Duration: 1:23
Something to Learn vs. Something to Prove
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2:08:58
Duration: 1:04